This time, I drove to Niikappu without my wife who has many relatives in that area. I brushed up the tomb stones of my wife's maternal ancestors, to be honest.
Actually, my wife said that she felt the difference between myself before the worship and later. I also felt myself treating myself much more kindly than before the greetings to her maternal ancestors.
Why ? Because all her ancestors in another world talked to me and inspired me to be better to her and obliged to remembering the time when I was eager to be with her at the risk of my everything. They speak to me so kindly.